No on Proposition 8!

the "jumping broom"
covered in ribbon blessings

I try not to get too political with this blog, if only because I firmly believe that religion and politics do not good bedfellows make. And interestingly enough, that is why I feel it is O.K. and even important to say in this blog that it is really imperative that all we Californians vote NO on Proposition 8.

The  proponents of Proposition 8 (the California Family Council, the Santa Ana Unified School District and the Coalition of African American Pastors) do not admit that their legislative attempt is religious. They are using California children as a screen to hide behind - "Teachers could be required to teach young children there is no difference between gay marriage and traditional marriage!" (taken directly from California's Official Voter Guide). This is a ridiculous scare tactic that isn't even true (notice the word "could" in there). They are hiding their religious agenda and it makes me sick to my stomach - at least be honest about it!

In the end, this is not a religious issue. It is a human being issue. Same sex couples are human beings and should have the right to marry if they choose. What is so hard to understand about that?

Proposition 8 eliminates the rights of same-sex couples to marry. In May 2008, the California Supreme Court ruled that statutes that limit marriage to a relationship between a man and a woman violates the equal protection clause of the California Constitution. As a result, currently, same sex marriage is recognized as valid and legal in California.

I am an Interfaith Minister by profession and one of the reasons that I chose this path is that I feel we ALL deserve to have a minister to celebrate and witness all the joys and major life experiences on our journey. Officiating weddings is one of my favorite things to do as a minister and I feel so lucky and blessed to be able to perform LEGAL wedding ceremonies for gay and lesbian couples.

I did a wonderful wedding this past weekend for two incredible, loving women who have been together 9 years and have a son together. I wish all the creators of Proposition 8 could have been at this wedding to witness the outpouring of love, joy and celebration during this ceremony. How can anyone witness that kind of love and support for a couple NOT support the idea that they deserve and have every right to be legally wed? It really boggles my mind.

As you see in this photo, I am holding a broom that has been tied with ribbons of blessing for the couple. This particular couple decided, along with vows and their ring exchange, to jump the broom, in honor of the decades that they were not allowed to marry each other, under the eyes of the legally binding body of our state. The ritual of jumping the broom has been used by both African-American slaves and Roma (also known as gypsies) to honor life commitments and marriage ceremonies.


Here is a quote from my sermon about the broom, from the ceremony:

Jumping the broom is a tradition that was started in cultures in which certain groups of people, were not allowed to legally marry, due to ignorance, discrimination and cruelty.

Joyfully, today’s ceremony is legal in the state of California, and {our couple] also wanted to honor the fact that this very act of uniting together in legal matrimony has been illegal for so long. This jumping of the broom, honors those 9 years spent together, and the commitment they have already made, as well as honoring this delightful day when all of you can witness them in their holy promise to each other.

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